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section 498a dowry laws harassment misuse divorce law anti-dowry case court filed complaint help helpline6 Apr 2005 Get Free Counselling if suffering from False Dowry Cases Posted by Misuse_dowry_act in Writing | 8:37pm CLICK Here to get Free Advice and Counselling if suffering from false 498a case How to Improve Gender Sensitivity in India 1) Women must not be imprisoned even if they kill. They need to be put in reformation homes. 2) As soon as a woman marries, she must get 50% rights onto husband’s property. 3) Large scale single parenting by woman with maintenance provided by husband. Research shows that children who are not allowed to see their fathers after divorce for years grow up very healthy. In India, Gender Sensitive judges must allow the women to decide whether she allows the father to see teh child after divorce or not. 4) Any violence committed by woman against other(including murder) be considered as done in self-defense. 5) The disparity between life expectency rate difference between men and women need to be brought to the levels at developed countries. In India, women live 2.4 years more than men on an average. This difference in life expectency has to be brought to the levels in US and Europe where women live more than 6 years than men on an average. 6) If a man cancels the enagagement, he need to be punished with imprison up to 5 months. If a woman cancels engagement, she must be compensated with 30% of man’s yearly income. 7) Any woman who commits suicide within 7 years of marriage, a dowry harassment or other harassment case against the husband to be put by default. He must be imprisoned for 1 year for not taking care of his wife. 8) If a woman complains of domestic violence, the man must be imprisoned immediately and bail can only be granted by a court. All the joint bank accounts must be frozen. Woman has to right to stay in the matrimonial home(husband’s house), till she gets divorce. If the women has an adulterous relation, till it is proved (beyond doubt) the husband must allow her to live in his house or must provide alternate accommodation. The typical example for benchmark is the case in movie "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam". Husband is also expected to help the women achieve her adulterous goals. If he can not directly help, he must provide one third of his salary towards the wife till she marries the other man. 9) A man must do half of household work even if his wife is not working. 10) After marriage, a man must not stay with his parents or allow his parents to stay prolonged period with him. He must allow his in-laws to stay in his house for the same amount of time his parents stay in his house. If he violates these rights of the woman, he can be imprisoned for not taking equal care of his in-laws. 11) If in-laws of a man "feel" their daughter and they are not properly treated, the man should be thoroughly counselled. If he does not mend his ways, stringent laws be made (even provision for lashing) for rectifying him. 12) The ratio of male:female suicide rates in India to be brought to the levels in west. In India, 50%(about 25000) more men commit suicide than women. This is much lower than the western standards where about 150% more men commit suicide than women. 13) The richer and the more educated the men are, the more should be pressure on them. They should provide the wife with a lifestyle equivalent to their status and they must also spend quality time with family. 14) In case of techies in Bangalore, they are expected to be even more soft as they work in software industry and earn a lot. They must deposit 20% of their monthly salary in their wife’s name. 15) If wife of a techie complains of dowry harassment or any other harassment, he must be sacked from the job after he gets out of the jail getting bail. 16) If the wife and husband both are techies, then the wife must not spend any amount of her salary towards the household or her personal expenses. All the expenses must be born by the man. 17) Streedhan given as gift to daughter during marriage must also be considered as dowry. 18) Women in rural india and poor women suffer due to ignorance and they can not afford legal help. So, the legal provisions must be used only in urban india. The rural women must be discouraged from approaching police or courts as they can not afford to pay bribes. The rural women (women in villages) must be empowered with better employment and they must be counselled to live healthy life in traditional family system and respect the decisions of family elders. This way, it can be shown that laws on women’s rights are UNDERUSED. That will help the urban women to MISUSE the law and file false cases. That will give good business to Feminist lawyers and Human Rights lawyers and provide good bribes to the police. Of course, the booty is ultimately settled between police and Women organisations. The extortion for a Techie goes upto 1 lac and for NRI it goes upto 4 lacs. 19) The rural women do not suffer from domestic violence. Hence domestic violence laws must be used more stringently in urban india only. 20) Recent study shows startling details that more women than men died on Titanic in 1911. 21) Men had much better life than women since ages. Men fought wars and always had good food in plundered lands when their women remained in hunger. 22) 25% of software engineers are women, so does 50% of medical students. The men whom these women marry must get bigger salaries than these women and must have higher social status than these talented women. Women must always marry up. 23) Men who do not like their wives wearing revealing clothes(including low-jeans) are old fashioned. In stead of divorcing them, their wives must use threat of section 498a (anti-dowry laws) to get the old parents of the man imprisioned, so that men can be counselled to change and learn tolerance. 24) Designers who plan to design revealing clothes for men must be banned for spreading vulgarity. Wearing revealing clothes is a right solely meant for women. 25) All judges who do not follow gender sensitivity and give judgements against women, must lose their right to pension. 26) Crime Against Women (CAW) cells must counsel the men such that men realise that if they do not bend, then their parents, even grandparents be imprisoned and tortured. CAW cells must also counsel the men not to commit suicide by telling them in details various methods of committing suicide. Men committing suicide must always be listed as suicide due to financial reason even if he commits suicide arranging dowry for his daughter. 27) As prevalent in Govt. services, any man accused of harassment against his wife, must be fired from job. Special camps must be set up by govt. in each state for these men to reform. Only hard work can make them learn patience and considerate behaviour. "Work Brings Freedom", "Arbeit Macht Frei". Their property must be confiscated by the state and donated to the NGOs working hand-in-hand with sincere police and benovelant lawyers for betterment of women. 28) Many human rights organisations have created examples of gender sensitivity by championing against giving bail to old and sick in-laws of women who complain of mistreatment. In fact, to iradicate dowry evil in India, these old and sick people must be imprisoned without investigation so that their sons can learn lessons for not caring the sincere and wise advice of their wives and in-laws. Even "Amnesty International" has opposed bail to sick and infirm in-laws of a woman as suggested by a gender insensitive former high court judge. 25000 women dying of dowry is a much bigger problem than only 10000 parents of men falsely getting jailed. Only a handful of old in-laws of the woman have committed suicide due to false dowry cases than the number of women dying in dowry problem. (All references and data are provided below) 29) Human rights orgnisations have gone a long way fighting against POTA and TADA. Because even...